A CBC Metro Morning listener’s testimonial

August 21st, 2010

Oh my god, I love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 I love it all! Thanks again, you are an absolute star. I will keep you posted on my progress. I am really get out there this fall with a trip to Europe and taking a Spanish class, so I think, all told, it will be the season to really meet new people. Thanks again and let me know how I can continue to support your wonderful service. I think you are an absolute treasure!

Ms. Phd, University of Toronto, Age 40+, August 12, 2010

“Love is in the Air”

August 5th, 2010

Actually “No Loves Lost” was on air Tuesday August 3rd  early morning!

Meeting Matt Galloway, CBC’s Radio Metro Morning smart and savvy host, was delightful!  A huge and heartfelt “thank you” to Matt and his terrific CBC team for this great opportunity to reach our audience.

Listen in on how our ghostwriting profiles can help you succeed in your search for romance and love in the single cyber-verse!  Let us know what you think!  Our interview is about half way through the following link -

http://podcast.cbc.ca/mp3/metromorning_20100803_36237.mp3

Inscription on the Huge Stone Arch

July 29th, 2010

Heaven and Earth

“Enduring as heaven and earth – no love however ancient can ever die;

Timeless as light and shadow – no debt of breeze and moonlight can ever be repaid.”

- Tsao Hsueh Chin – From “The Dream of The Red Chamber”

Long Lasting Love

July 15th, 2010

This week I was dining with husband and wife friends in their lovely home.  I marvelled at the feast they put before me – fine wine, fine food, fine friends.

But what caught my eye was their love for one another, quietly and effortlessly.  Their exchanges had the comfort of knowing one another for 30+ years.

As we were finishing dinner, I asked them, “Tell me, what is the secret ingredient for such a loving relationship?”  They smiled and laughed.  I pressed further, trying to coax and cajole an answer from them.  They continued to smile and laugh.

Stumped, I rolled my eyes upward and caught their “secret” on display. I saw three words hung above their patio door and then I laughed with them!

LIVE…LOVE…LAUGH 

“Us”?

July 1st, 2010

These two little letters appeared quite unexpectedly!

In an e-mail from an Ex, “us” reminded me of some pretty powerful memories from the past.  In fact, I was quite surprised that 25 years have not erased them.

He simply wrote “think back to us”.

So I did and back then, we were “we” as well as “us” and all the two letter words that go hand in hand in couple-dom.

And while thinking about “us”, I realized that all is well with “me, myself, and I.”

Summer in the City

Another Love Found!

June 24th, 2010

“I have good news – I have been spending time with one gentleman whom I met on-line.  I want to see where this goes and also I am not inclined to pursue anything else right now so I’ve closed my on-line accounts!  He is lovely, super bright, very independent but also “available” – great qualities and I look forward to learning more about him,” says E. D., Vice-President, Special Projects in advertising – June 23, 2010.

An Orchestral Work of Romantic Possibilities

June 15th, 2010

I’m not waiting for the Conductor to give me the downbeat with His baton.

Beyond the orchestra, I am seeking a harmonious relationship with a mature man of intellectual means, a tall man, at least 5′ 10″, age 52 – 62, an educated man of solid stature with the requisite sense of humour. You should know an allegro from an adagio and a scherzo from a sonata-rondo.

Lively, luminous, and light-hearted, I love the outdoors, snow and sea, skiing and swimming, golf and tennis. Indoors, I spend my time at art/photography exhibitions, classical and jazz concerts as well as theatre. I am independent and articulate, open-minded and curious, a free spirit.

So if you are looking for a more meaningful coda, then this is your cue!

To YYZ With Love

June 15th, 2010

Long distance love? Absence? Not likely after chatting with our Men In Squash a.k.a. MIS. They have never heard of the age-old adage – “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” In particular, the MIS from Down Under – they prefer to stay close to their YYZ loves.

Boarding passes for many MIS read:
Dep SYD Arr YYZ Sydney/Toronto
Dep BNE Arr YYZ Brisbane/Toronto
Dep CBR Arr YYZ Canberra/Toronto

And from another corner of the world, a love-struck squasher from JNB (Jo’burg) arrived in YYZ to be with The One. Sadly, they became a distant Two. But happily, he now met and will be wed to a new One!

Not to be forgotten are the Ladies who Love. From CDG, MOW, and NRT (Paris, Moscow, Tokyo), some remain in YYZ, others have flown but ALL in the name of love.

So is Love the real RTW (Round The World) ticket to happiness? Quantas might be the airline with the answer!

When Virtual meets Reality

June 8th, 2010

What not to say:

1.  Don’t talk about illness.  You haven’t got to the part that says “in sickness and in health”…well, not yet.

2.  When the bill arrives, “Your share is ….” and they are out the door.

3.  Suppress the urge to rattle off your resume in the first 10 minutes.   

But do be:

1.  Courteous as you round the corner, catch a glimpse, and discover, oops, not your type. Have the decency to show up and say politely “thanks but no thanks”.

2.  On time.  If you are delayed, text or call and say, “I’m  sorry.”

3.  Yourself.  Who else can you be?

Being straight-forward, sincere, and somewhat sane can be sexy!

He loves me, he loves me …

May 31st, 2010

It’s Friday noon and my BlackBerry buzzes.  I glance and Mr. Past Love pops up on my screen.  I squint.  I stop in my tracks. 

It’s been months.  I had to count them – four, I suppose.

His e-mail – two lines – incroyable!  I had to count them, too.

“I’ll be in town this weekend.  If you’re around on Sunday, let’s go rock-climbing.”

What does he mean?  Hmmm….I did the usual consult-a-rounds.

“You can’t!”, “You won’t!”, “You, alright?”, my lifelong BFF’s ping.

I let his e-mail simmer in the back of my mind for the rest of the day.  At mid-night, I decide.  No, not going to see him and reply, “Nice to hear from you.  Weekend jam-packed.  When are you leaving?”

His answer - one line - “Monday a. m.”

Sadly, he loves me not … but gladly, I have no lines left, save for “Have a nice flight!” as he remains Mr. Past Love.